Merlin Carothers (1924-2013, photo attached) was a Methodist pastor and American military chaplain. He recommends saying, when we are in a painful situation,: "Thank you, Lord. I trust in you. I am sure that you are present in this painful situation. You will bring good out of it, just as you brought good out of the crucifixion of Jesus: he is risen, and the 11 apostles have recovered their faith in him."
- Either the situation will change,
- Either our attitude toward the situation will change.
"God works with those who love him and turn everything to their good" (Rm 8 ,28)
"For all things give thanks" (1 Th 5,18)